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Dating: Understanding Him
What
is the Language on Mars, Again?
How to communicate with a man—so
that everyone feels encouraged!
What really is life like on Mars?
I mean, how strange that the inhabitants (men) would like to hear you say, “I
had so much fun” after a date, rather than “you are so much fun.”
Does that make sense? Not to us (the Venusians)!
On Mars, men feel most complimented when you say you feel good because of something
he’s done—whereas we (Venusians) want to be adored.
A man likes these indirect compliments—it encourages him to continuing
pursuing you. He feels more confident in his ability to win you over… and
thus more interested.
Again, this doesn’t make sense—but thankfully there are some guides
to help us understand this foreign language! If you’re dating, check out Mars
and Venus on a Date by
John Gray.
It’ll certainly help you sift through your feelings, get what you want… and
create a mutually fulfilling relationship!
And if you’re married, consider reading (or re-reading) Men
Are from Mars, Women are from Venus .
It’s a practical guide for improving your communication and getting what
you both want in the relationship!
Once you better understand each other, you can meet in the middle—on planet
earth… to live happily ever after!
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