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Dear
Andre,
Ok, so I have a first date tomorrow night, and I'm not sure what
to wear. We're going to a fun, hip sushi place in the Marina district.
Do I go for the jeans and a cute top, or should I wear a skirt?
Advice?????
Dear Shellbell...
Ah, first dates are always tough. Fun and hip is good, it takes
away the stress of being underdressed for a stiff/stuffy restaurant,
and gives you the freedom to bust out some fun jeans and tops.
It all depends on where you met this guy too. If you dress up
for work, and you see him at work quite often, you might want
to dress down, and wear jeans and a vintage T-shirt, or the cute
top you suggested. A skirt could work as well, as long as its
not too dressy. Are you comfortable with your legs at this time
of year? (Tan and Tone?) If he specified a fun and hip restaurant,
I think that gives you a lot of leeway, but I would take the fun/cute
route with some hip flare. Good luck!!
Andre,
Here is the situation. I have been dating this guy for a few weeks
and everything has been amazing. We have spent everyday together.
The other night we stopped at a bar before heading home from a
get together with his friends and well I got drunk. So drunk I
blacked out and started talking about nothing. This all took place
in the matter of 2 hours. I know better than to drink like that
but I don't know what happened. Now he tells me that he does not
want to be with someone who can do that. He is afraid of the future.
How can I prove to him it will never happen again. Or any advice
please. Thanks
Well thats a tough spot you're in...The good thing is that you
had a few weeks prior to the "incident" that gave you
a more legit rep, (hopefully of someone who doesn't get drunk
and babble frequently!). If this guy is quality, he should understand
that it was an isolated incident, as long as you apologize and
explain with a level head, WITHOUT getting defensive. And then
my adive would be to lay off the booze for a while when you go
out, to show him that you don't need it to have a good time! This
should give him assurance that you are not a lush!
Hi Andre!
I have a delimma maybe you can help... I really like it when my
boyfriend spends an excess amount of money on me because it shows
that he cares. It's not like I expect it every DAY! just Friday
and Saturday night. NOW He's complaining about not having enough
money to take me out and it's really starting to annoy me! Should
I keep him or dump him? Luvs.
Well, from my experience girls LOVE to be taken out and lavished
upon, some more than others. If the main reason you want to dump
him is because he is not taking you out anymore, and doesn't want
to spend money on you, that might be a bit hasty. He could be
strapped for cash right now, whatever his circumstances. If you
see a decline in his giving whether its attention, affection,
orother areas (as well as how much he spends on you), then it
might be time to have a talk, or give him the boot! If he really
shows you that he cares for you in other ways, then you might
want to keep him around and learn how to acccept his affection
from means other than just how much money he spends!
Ask a Question of your own!
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